LTR"understanding"LOVE..NOTmuchREALLY
I am seeking a SPECIAL woman, many say there special; BUT I STILL HAVE TO BELIEVE your special.
Why have i not found that "right one" ? Much we can speculate, Maybe it's my financial circumstances currently (very bad).
Well this had not been the overriding issue for some (i have had offers) TRUE STATEMENT (actually everything i write is "true") If you have a cynical view of men or people in general (your not going to be a good fit for me).
Other things we can speculate on is that there are many single mothers out there and some that have seriously considered bringing me (accepting me "as is") into there home.
But just because they wanted me to join the family, how could i consider such ( when there is chaos ) in the household ?
Just because Mom wants someone there for her (me) doesn't mean that she can have her wish (Moms on 24/7)
Just because children are open to Mom having someone better than there Father (many are single or divorced because of Father issues right?...
Does not mean that children can and won't change there minds and or hearts (they are children)...
I need to feel stability and i am willing to step up and show what i am made of, If you fall in these categories it will be important for (us) (all) to feel comfortable, I am the kind of person that want (the children) to participate in a second date...BECAUSE IF THERE NOT OPEN TO ME, WE HAVE (NO) CHANCE.
If none of this applies (we) have less to consider, however i have crossed paths with women that don't have children home and are not good candidates for me (likewise).
I can go on and on..been at this over a year and a half. (other dating sites) Chemistry, Singles Net, Yearbook (similar to facebook)..still have that one up and actually believe it should be visited by anyone considering how i could be a POSITIVE member of the household...
Now i am not perfect for many, BUT I BELIEVE I WILL BE PERFECT FOR SOMEONE.
I like to use craigslist even though i know there are lots of judgmental people out there (both genders) because it allows me much editorial space with out someone editing what I FEEL IMPORTANT TO REVEAL OR ASK.
I always preferred to not attach my mug on any public forum but the reality is that looks are important, just like very good personal and oral hygiene.
This is very important to me.
I have NO criminal record and NO dui's (think this is important?)...can this fact be a balancing issue as to my financial circumstances (they should get better GOD willing) Yes; i believe and it is very important that you be a believer (i don't go to church) i don't preach the word, BUT I DO BELIEVE WERE ON BORROWED TIME (things are very clear to me) THINGS "AS IS" CANNOT SUSTAIN THEMSELVES.
( I believe important to have someone in (our) lives that will have our back ( my character and loyalty) is beyond BELIEF).
As long as GOD knows whats in my heart and soul..THAT IS ALL I NEED to feel i can be redeemed in the end.
I am working on some things that could be helpful in the future but no guarantees, JUST LIKE LIFE IS NEVER GUARANTEED PAST OUR NEXT BREATH...
Very important you understand what i just said there because i lost my father quickly and i have seen people in my life there 1 minute and gone the next.
Very important for (you) to have "understanding" even after his passing my fathers wisdom about that word "UNDERSTANDING"...
So lacking today, just like so many good virtues.
Now i want to re emphasize i am NOT PERFECT !! I wish i could turn the clock and live out a long term marriage with my high school sweetheart, but much has changed, eroded.
So we have to approach (our) potential MATE with healthy skepticism but with belief that (our) souls can be healed with the right person in (our) lives.
I have also been given consideration by some well to do, however it never overrides my preference to connect with a "true" understanding woman (pleasing to the eye) Being overweight is not something i put much emphasis on ( i can stand to loose some)..
But obese is problematic.
I have much to offer, help in your household, business?
I don't like to ask for help (i was self employed for many years) but with some limitations, mainly i was taking care of my father.
I like to give freely with out expectation, however giving and giving with out acknowledgment or other actions that say....YOU CARE CAN LEAD TO FEELING DISTANT AND UNAPPRECIATED ( try me?).
I am from a different mold (maybe they broke it many years ago) ..I wonder if your perceptions are they way they should be, rather than judgmental.
Here's what many deem important: I am 5'6" (48) all my original teeth (never a cavity) husky and have a lot of body hair.
I have to mention these important facts because of (many) ads i read...HINT SHALLOWNESS
If you can get past all this and want to really learn about me AS I WANT TO LEARN ABOUT YOU then just ask me to send you more information.
You can expect a lot of information, good and bad (depends on your perspective, half full or half empty)..You may feel optimism (about US) you may feel sorry for me (i don't want that!) you may cry if (we) get to the issues were "UNDERSTANDING" will be tested.
What do you really have to loose other than time reading? When you request more information you can either say NO THANKS or you may want me to send you more information for better "UNDERSTANDING".
Pretty simple process, whats difficult is "BELIEVING" IN ONE ANOTHER ENOUGH TO TAKE A CHANCE AT LOYALTY, HAPPINESS LIKE (WE) ARE NOT CAPABLE OF BELIEVING AT THE MOMENT.
Yes; i am fairly close horny women in Hanover Park, IL to giving up on such a woman described above and throughout.
I truly believe its important for (me) to be accepted by (you) and your family if this applies "AS IS"...The character is more important than what i posses or don't posses (material).
What is the ultimate goal for me? Living TOGETHER BEFORE THE HOLIDAYS this should be a deal breaker for (all) But if you don't read and learn more you can't make an informed decision one way or another right?..Remember life is never guaranteed beyond our next breath.
Thanks for your time and consideration.
Robert
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